A Japanese groom and a Western bride is by far the least frequent scenario among over 20 thousand international marriages each year in Japan. In fact, these three scenarios alone account for over half of all international marriages in Japan. When it comes to marriages between Japanese and Westerners, the gender pattern is reversed, the foreign spouse most typically being an American man.
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Different gender expectations may be an issue too. While some contribute substantially to household income or are even primary breadwinners, they still tend to take on most housework.
An Australian woman notes: In my home country, females are equal to their spouses, and work is expected while the male cares for the children at home. There is also some frustration about the typically Japanese priority of work over family.
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The husbands too are generally well-educated, in their mid-forties and the majority have lived outside of Japan for at Metropollis a year. The couple typically has two kids, lives in a big city and enjoys a relatively comfortable financial situation.