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We continued to be able to afford a house and a yard in a good school district, one that got me to MIT on scholarship. I have to say thanks for this. I had two parents helping me the day I pulled off a really great sixteenth birthday picnic overlooking the Hudson River. When both parents showed up after my husband died, they arrived together and did not add the tension a couple of divorced parents might have. Again, so much better than I see in other families Married but lonely wanting hot massage split up.

However, I I need luvin u need a lot of Married but lonely wanting hot massage who ask the question picture doing what my parents did, which is staying the course, a course that took an arduous route and offered little reward other than honoring their integrity and doing right by their children.

They paid a huge price for what they gave us.

Worse, we could see the price they were paying and feel bt tension between them every day. Growing up, I felt fortunate, but never comfortable.

And then I became one of those parents asking, "Should I stay married for our child?

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The therapist I saw offered little hope of my situation changing; we cannot remold our spouses. But they missed the point entirely. Stay married for yourself.

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Stay married for another shot at a great marriage with the person your kids call Mommy or Daddy. Divorce gets you from -5 to 0 on the life satisfaction scale.

It gets your kids from maybe 2 if they sense your unhappiness to -8 and leaves them powerless to change any of it. Three things work for me to Iowa sluts slutty white girls everything: Assume Love - Take a second look at everything that upsets you about your mate's words Married but lonely wanting hot massage deeds by asking what might explain them if you are still loved as much as ever by someone as wonderful as you first imagined.

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An expectation is a premeditated resentment. If you have been waiting for your mate to fix your life, start fixing it yourself.

Prepare to be surprised by the forms love takes when you stop trying to dictate what it should Married but lonely wanting hot massage like. Find Third Alternatives - When you disagree, let go of your first choice to free yourself to look together for an even better choice, one at least as good for you with the bonus of making your spouse happy, too. Never settle for being a doormat or for being right without being kind. Afraid you might be putting on rose-colored glasses and changing nothing?

Rose-colored glasses are actually part of most happy marriages. Your kids want you to fall in love all over again with their other parent. Give it a try. Tell me, did your parents stay married for the kids?

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Her expectations on me feels huge, she expects me to do a lot more than I possibly can handle and lonelly standards for how it should be done are so high tat I rarely manage to do byt good enough. We keep together for the children but are only parents and not lovers. I have tried to get her to read the book "Five love languages" together with me and Married but lonely wanting hot massage has helped me to understand her better but she has only read the first part and does not prioritize to read the second.

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The big question Marriee my mind is how I could try to get her to change her expectations and try to see the things I try to do as a sign of love. She also puts really high expectations on her self and gets very frustrated when she cant fulfill them her self. JS June 7, 8: JS, I am going to offer some suggestions for your situation in a Horney black women Warwick seeks older guys blog post.

Anyone reading this later, look for the June 7, post. Patty Newbold June Married but lonely wanting hot massage, 9: My parents stayed married for their kids and it was awful.

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I saw my mom be a doormat and my dad be continually contemptous and denigrating to her. He was emotionally abusive to us kids too I'm guessing this is a not uncommon pattern.

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I grew up an insecure, fearful child. Now, as an adult, I've Matried had to work at not repeating either of my parent's examples. The simple witnessing of an abusive relationship is damaging to a child.

When my parents did get divorced, when I was in my 20's, I said, "Thank God! Why didn't you do it sooner? EM July 28, Patty Married but lonely wanting hot massage July 28, I am at a crossroad, at this very moment. Part of me feels shame, and being selfish. The other, wishes for freedom.

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She's never happy, a Debbie downer, about everything and has 0 patiece. Hence why I wanted to end it in the first place. And, you think I should stay? I love the kid, konely not the mother.

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