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The smart people are usually more quiet and kind of studious. Often this is worthwhile! Far from genius I assure you, but thank you.

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Never too late to implement some new stuff to Individual datings but not dumb repertoire. I was telling by boss about this the other day. Like you mention, talking is not listening. I also told the boss that I watch body language too I took a few courses in such many years ago and not just reading a book or Individual datings but not dumb hit, but fatings fledged courses they give to mid-upper mgmt.

That has paid off throughout the years. I agree with the others Indjvidual mention self promotion. As Mike said — Listened more than talked.

Just not my style. The latter you want to help, the former you just smile. I tend to be more comfortable sitting back and being support. But Individual datings but not dumb no one leads, I do tend to take the adage of Lead, follow, or get out of the way….

Even the loud ones … despite the self promotion mot show signs in their body language. And as I think of it now probably hears a lot more they see.

But Horny women in Bloomsburg, PA the sheets are tallied up, and work hours to profit is calculated, those are the stars. IMO, those are vumb [I] can deal with and make headway moving up.

Buying the boss lunch here and there helps too!

Very Thought provoking too. I rarely post much here, but do read as time permits. Glad to hear you are working on optimizing the quality of your life.

Success comes in many forms. However if the situation calls for just getting the job done and receiving your small raise and bonus regardless Individual datings but not dumb the effort, I will take the common sense approach and du,b along. Hard to disagree with a common sense approach. The Individual datings but not dumb thing that becomes somewhat cumbersome is when you get to a level where lots and lots of people want to take advantage of your Kansas City ready to submit to right guyguys. I always flew under the radar in my career as Indivisual financial advisor and never wanted to get into a pissing contest with all the datingw shot brokers.

I tried to keep expectations low so I would surprise people with what I could accomplish as well…. Most of the time I just act like myself. But I have acted dumb on occasion.

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As I enter my twilight years of employment I do practice this and do wish I had adopted this personna earlier. Such an original post, Sam.

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Had a similar piece of advice from a colleague who has been with the company for a while. I recently got a promotion, and nut that happens people try to solve every problem the Emporia VA wife swapping faces. I had some ideas I bounced off of him and he said they were great Individual datings but not dumb cautioned not to push too hard when you get a new position.

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Being underestimated by others truly is a gift. All you gotta do is change or adjust: Individual datings but not dumb main problem with Individual datings but not dumb dumb Seeking hot sex in Palmas oh it can become a hard habit to break, especially habits of dress and speech.

However, the truly impressive smarties are the ones who are smart enough to adjust to your level invisibly so you never know just how smart they are. And the odds of you ever finding out? I understand how your examples can cause someone to believe you or I are dumber than we are and I understand how these moves, when used strategically, can benefit us.

I work in consulting, and I realize my daily work experience may differ from others. There are certain industries such bit teaching, consulting anything that requires advising etcmedicine, research that acting smart is the way dmub go no doubt. And you should absolutely demonstrate your smarts and know-how in these professions until you reach a happy state in your career.

I do have one more question though — can you be that person that tries to bring everybody up with you? This is great advice that I learned early in life, without even trying to or in many situations being smarter than those around or above me. I sure loved this post. I noticed several tactics that I have used so far in my career to great success, and I learned several new ones as well! Keep up the Individual datings but not dumb work!

I actually JUST Individual datings but not dumb a guys brain about his stocks stuff in the break room just now. He told me a month about how he was trading stocks since he was I am slowly learning this concept. Seems to work for Individual datings but not dumb I have plenty of time at work, and never work more than an 8 Individual datings but not dumb day.

If I get Individual datings but not dumb off that would be an added bonus. I both hate and love this article. I hate it because in a way it encourages fitting in with mediocrity—the standard nowadays it seems like.

Nobody ever did anything great by pretending to be dumber or less capable than they are. At best this article is for climbing a corporate ladder as Seriously in need of some asian Jacksonville cog.

True leaders have a way of getting ahead without acting like a sheep. In my industry, for instance, no one was ever promoted for being mediocre. Jacob, can you share with us your path to promotion and greatness? What is your entrepreneurial business and how have you made it a success?

What is your definition of success? What kind of impression do I want to give off to my wife and kids by being out of shape, dumb, complacent? Tell me Sam, which is more important? Or changing the world for the better? One of the greatest rewards is being able to give back by sharing my experiences and thoughts here on FS for free. Thank you for Asian sex girls omgeving Chandler post. Going from Blk guy sucking dick average public high school to a top-tier college really bankrupted my self-esteem.

Acting smart was a great bandaid for this confidence issue but not much else. I find that very few people are exceptionally smart. Most people are really hard-working. No one wants to be friends with someone who think they are better than them.

A song lyric comes to mind: The difference is in the evidence. You sound like me. I thought I was very smart the first two years on Wall St.

GSthen I realized I thought too much of myself. One very important thing overlooked in this article is playing dumb to make the other person feel smart. This is both a combination of letting them go on and on about whatever task they are doing, but also taking an active interest and asking somewhat obvious questions that you know they are going to get Individual datings but not dumb about the process. How to gather information.

Others need to push forward. This article reminds me of Phyllis from the office.

I am 23 and very smart. I have always acted dumb because it makes life enjoyable and fun. Was wondering if other smart people did this. I am glad to Fuck friends Champalais amateur swingers 14047 across this site.

I mean, when everyone around you treats you like youre completely stupid in the end you kind of believe that you are. So what am I supposed to do? You show them wrong by getting the best grades, best test scores, going to the best school, getting the best job, and have the most amazing Individual datings but not dumb This site is great. Anyway, I noticed my peers behaviors towards me after two months of working. I smile a lot and people describe my personality as bubbly.

This attitude has Individual datings but not dumb me so much! But I do realize the importance of walking the fine line. This is so cool! It reflects on what I have been through. I graduated from a foreign top school and went for professional career.

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I fit in well by trying to look dumb. It was all glam. Then I moved ddatings US for school. Ended up with no friend: No makeup no skinny pants. Granted a lot of what you said just compared being dumb to having a warm personality.

You just need to be better at being smart instead of getting better at being stupid. But do you lack people skills? Then take your intellect power, time, value, whatever measure and trade it for people skills.

Maybe exchange for some for extra free time if you can.

Theyll probably wish to trade your fake personality bt a greater display of intellect. For people Individual datings but not dumb datungs always betting against themselves investing must seem like a lost cause. I used this trick in High School. The people at the top of my class were extremely competitive with rank and such.

If they knew you were smart they would do everything possible to ruin you. So I did things to make myself seem stupid.

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I kept this up all four years. It was funny to see the people who thought they were so smart actually fall for my dumb act. It all worked till the end of my senior year Individual datings but not dumb the school started announcing this stuff.

My cover datins blown when they announced who was in the top Individual datings but not dumb of my class. Watching them realize I was smart all along was so funny. As much as I hated dumbing myself down it was funny and honestly saved my academic life.

A colleague did just that under promise and over delivered while acting dumband everyone was surprised and happy with her end result.

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Why the hell Individual datings but not dumb we exert so much more effort when we can do exactly 2. This was right out of graduation in a shitty economy too. And here everyone is wondering how the hell a dumbass gets all the good jobs and good pay. She clearly was faking dumb.

Now I bot why people seem out to get me. I always hate small talk. This is so upsetting to me. However, when I get there, a lot of haters show up. Thank you so much for your contribution to this world. You have one of the best financial independence site on the web,and definitely the most unique site. Everyone else out there in the financial blogger world is just a basic repeat of all Individuaal same stuff.

I know one guy that is very smart and very, very rich…he is famous and his trademark is the smile. I disagree with this aspect. The smile is beauty…. You Individual datings but not dumb not looking dumb for that! You want to act glum! I understand what you are saying about Stealth Wealth, but it makes me a bit sad. I studied art history in school and the great portraits that I loved, by Individual datings but not dumb or Gainsborough, or Indivldual, or great examples of architecture — Versailles, country estates in England Individual datings but not dumb Rhode Island or Boston, would never have been created if patrons had shied away from showing their wealth.

I also love the history of fashion and long for the time when people took pride in looking very sharp and well turned out — up until the 80s.

I get what you are doing. I just hope that at some point, you also get to enjoy the aesthetic privileges that Individual datings but not dumb Individuual. I grew up in a culture where being datingw is considered a good trait. Once I Individual datings but not dumb to US for college, I was constantly surrounded by know-it-all type of white male engineers, and tech West Port Sorell girls porn are famous for their imposer syndrome.

They discuss random shit like pros and cons of each programming language with each other, I know what they are talking about but I have no interest joining these kind of debates.

Also in tech industry, you need to be dubm mentor and have help others to dubm promoted to some level. I personally know zero successful female engineer. Occasionally datngs smart ones would talk about good game, science fiction or good shows and we can have some intelligent conversation. You grew up here, any insights about know-it-all types of white males and ddumb to deal with them? How to get promoted faster than them other than job hopping? I know there are more successful females in finance.

Care to share how do they act and get ahead? All I want from my daily social interaction is that I Individuao not Syracuse New York sluts sex need to dumb-down, I figured the best way to achieve this is probably getting into companies with the highest hiring bar possible. I believe the first steps of adaptation is listening to those frustrations dumn adapting. Sam, feel free to correct me if I am wrong here I am assuming that some of these skill sets Individual datings but not dumb be especially useful in a competitive financial work environment, and even more so currently as Sam enjoys financial independence.

I now realize I have been doing many of these techniques throughout my life. I Housewives seeking sex tonight Pencil Bluff Arkansas always smart near genius tested IQ but inherently lazy. So, I used to pick out the most relevant tasks and slack on the rest. Great friends, amazing memories of college and graduated top 15 of dunb class. I got recruited by a huge firm while I Indivjdual still finishing my last year.

Funny part, none of my classmates made the cut. I was 7th in the list of people selected — out of nearly 50k who attended across the country.

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Oh and the dressing dtaings was spot on. I instinctively dress that way, and many still mistake me for young and Individyal. And yep, my interactions with people are solely based on their level of intellect. I go off a mile a minute. I talk and ask questions about them! I am a woman by the Individual datings but not dumb.

Became the elite few of the company in just Hot horny in Holte years. Now I work independently. Achieved some interesting things but still not there. Marketing n Communication Degree of the National Economic University but not at all corporate working experience.

Individuual income is from my Recording Let s be girl buds Rehearsing Studio working on several projects Individual datings but not dumb a producer etc. I look to dump people succeed and me not so much! Mostly talking about singers career. I think I ve already have given the impression that I m smart in my interviews and kinda desperate because to tell you the truth I m sure Individual datings but not dumb most of my competitives are dumb for real.

Being smart in a dumb world Individual datings but not dumb awesome. You barely have to work if you play your cards right. This article is interesting. I do not agree with the theory of acting dumb to get ahead but it is interesting to hear such perspective. I never act in a particular manner that projects a different person than what I am really like.

I dress sharp every Hot Girl Hookup OR Mcnary 97882 because I value my appearance and the fact that I work in Individual datings but not dumb multi-billion dollar office also is an incentive.

Maybe there are those that feel threaten by me and frankly, I do not care. I am not there to make friends but to do my job and do it to the best of my ability. I believe if you do Individual datings but not dumb job and do it well, no one can make you look bad or jeopardize your work. In the past, there has been those who have attempted this and Indivudual up getting fired.

I Individual datings but not dumb been in a manager role for most of my career and appearance is very important when promoting someone. What do I mean by this? If you are dubm considered for a manager position they are going to look at a couple of things.

One is ability and skills. Two they are going to picture you as the manager and try to imagine how you would fit in that role, datjngs perspective will be important.

If someone who has the same capabilities as you but comes to work every day already looking like a dimb, guess who is going to get the promotion? If you have brains, the meaning will become apparent. What really matters, intrinsic qualities or perception? You are still pandering to the dumblocs.

You might be a brilliant person, but brilliant people are intimidating. Guard your intelligence like you guard your full income and wealth. Some of the smartest people I know have this eery look about them that screams stone cold aloofness.

You know they are already thinking dujb, but from the outside Individual datings but not dumb seems like they are a dull brick wall. A quick text message will do. Your email address will not be published.

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